REFLECTIONS ON SPIRITUALITY
Spirituality gets many definitions .
The proper definition of spirituality is getting fulfilment from faith in the
supernatural and or embracing obligations that come from the spiritual realm.
It is not true that religion and spirituality can be separated. People who agree
with the thought that they can say that you can’t have religion without
spirituality but you can have spirituality without religion. Actually the two go
together. A spiritual person who denies that he or she is religious is actually
his own individualistic religion.
A religion with only one member is still a religion.
Faiths that do not believe in a supernatural soul such as the Christadelphians
still urge people to be spiritual . Some atheists say atheism is spiritual for
it gives you meaning in life and can be fulfilling. But then what do they need
the word spiritual for? Why not just use the word fulfilling? For example, we
might say that a person has done something in an unselfish spirit. This is a
metaphor. We only mean that their attitude is unselfish. And there need be no
spirit involved in that!
An atheist should never speak of spiritual.
Religion and spirituality are separate things
Religion is hard to define. But we know one characteristic of it is that it
tells you what you must believe on the authority of some supernatural power. For
example, Christians tell you that you have a duty to believe and obey what God
has revealed. It is based on the idea of authority - divine authority to be
specific. No matter how liberal religion is, it is about control. The desire for
authority is a form of the desire to abuse and to violate. Even it is light, it
is still to be condemned. The authority that gives you total freedom or a lot of
freedom is still an authority. You are still expected to slavishly do what you
are told. If the authority tells you to go and have a good party if you want
one, you are still being obedient just as much as you would be if it told you to
enter a monastery forever. Those who progress within religion will progress
better without it.
Spirituality is different from religion. A person for example can have a
Catholic spirituality and not get be an official formal member of the Catholic
Church. The person is a follower of Catholic spirituality but not yet of the
Catholic religion. There can be spirituality without being part of a religion
but religion cannot exist without spirituality.
Some say that spirituality advises you to experience things for yourself and
find fulfilment in them so that you grow into a better person. That is not
spirituality but freethinking. It would imply that true spirituality tells you
to be your own God and to find meaning in life without letting anybody else
interfere. But that would be saying that those who believe in God are not
spiritual!
Many define spirituality as your personal experience and relationship with the
divine. For some, that is fine as long as you realise that you are your own God.
Some say that spirituality is about feeling communion with all life and gaining
physical, mental, emotional and intellectual contentment through this feeling.
But what is spiritual about all that? You might as well say that caffeine is
spiritual. At least their view argues that our inner life does not need to be
about praying or religious doctrine or ghostly spirits.
For a person who believes that everything is material, they would imagine their
spirit is a material thing. They see the feeling of spirituality as a material
force or energy that makes them enjoy life. They are not spiritual for they see
everything in terms of material forces.
If spirituality is about finding peace, religion is really an accessory and
therefore a block. It dilutes our focus.
Spirituality is about getting comfort and confidence from the supernatural.
Spirit is a supernatural thing. This belief is nonsense and many of us live
happy and good lives without having much belief in the supernatural. Many of us
don't even care.
Be guided from within. You don't need the outward guidance of religion. You
don't need belief in the spirit or in the supernatural. Be your own God,
prophet, Messiah and pope.