The Implicit Atheism of the Sedona Method
The feeling that life has no meaning is just a feeling. It can be changed.
Try the Sedona Method.
Ask yourself,
What feeling do you have now?
Can you welcome that feeling as best you can?
Can you allow yourself to let it go?
When?
Do this several times until you feel some improvement. With practice you will
release all the bad feelings that hurt you.
You can go deeper by asking
Is the feeling I have now really about wanting (CHOOSE ONE FOR THE EXERCISE
approval, control, security or separation from something I don't want)?
Can I welcome this wanting (CHOOSE ONE FOR THE EXERCISE approval, control,
security or separation from something I don't want)?
Could I let go of wanting (CHOOSE ONE FOR THE EXERCISE approval, control,
security or separation from something I don't want)?
Notice that it requires that you drop moral concerns such as religion and
therefore God assuming God is a moral being. Also, note that the desire for
approval is really a desire for safety or security. You think that if God and
enough people like and approve of you then you will be safe. We have enough to
worry about without worrying about God's approval. And as God has no needs it
follows that looking for his approval is just a form of self-punishment and
shows severe trust issues with yourself.
The exercise is about you allowing yourself to feel better. Worrying about what
God allows only gets in the way. You are on your own. You have to be for the
exercise to work.
The method recognises that it is not positive thoughts that will help us but
developing positive feelings. It helps you live in the present instead of having
you worried about your overall purpose.
To worry about morality is to worry about punishment for morality is about
rewarding the moral and paying back the immoral. You end up thinking you may
deserve punishment. You fear punishment from somebody outside of you so you may
punish yourself in the hope of averting this. If you believe you are immoral you
will be wilfully attracting punishment and you may end up feeling you have never
been sufficiently punished. Your guilt makes you as good as punish yourself and
it lies to you that it protects you from punishment. It lies that it can stop
you doing the bad thing again. Belief in a moral God will only make guilt worse.
Looking to a moral god for an answer to the problem of your life which you think
has no meaning only creates new problems perhaps at the expense of seemingly
solving one problem.