Prayer is a Harmful Affirmation
I'm not sure if affirmations, statements you recite over and over to yourself
until you program yourself to make them true, really work. But assume they do
for the moment.
The most dangerous negative affirmations are, "Obey God," "God is better than
you" and, "God has all power and you can't get the better of God." They are
omnipotent in the obvious or subliminal or implicit damage they do.
It is so important to give no support to any religion or teacher who fails to
preach the principles of positive affirmations and their magic. Staying away
from negative people and negative religions is a mammoth must.
The most dangerous negativity of all is the subtle kind, the kind that looks
caring and respectful. Prayer is an example. Subtle negativity can seem to
produce good results but it merely sets you up for a fall. Better the enemy that
looks as an enemy should look!
Affirmations command things to happen psychologically and implies that you are
developing the confidence that you will succeed. Prayer is not commanding or
drawing on your inner resources at all and is a sign of poor confidence. You are
calling on God to intervene to fix your bad confidence instead. Affirmations
reflect the idea that you are God for yourself and over yourself and therefore
will not be asking any other God for help. If you ask for help, that is really
helping yourself as opposed to really depending on anybody else. Affirmations
are trying to help yourself without devotion to God. They have nothing to do
with prayer and they deny the need for prayer. The person who improves their own
life is better off than the person who gets somebody else to do it for them.
They will naturally have a higher level of happiness. It is nice to be
independent and self-made. The resulting self-fulfilment is stronger and more
confident because it doesn't depend on any attachment to another person or
anybody else.
If you believed in God, you would be able to order what you want down to the
finest detail. You are entitled to think that the universe should be your way
and that God should comply. It has to be somebody's way and so why not yours?
Positive affirmations are better than prayers. Prayer is at the very bottom of
the effectiveness scale - at best. It belongs there because using it is to
affirm that you don't deserve to practice the best affirmations. It's a negative
affirmation! Prayer might seem to work and to help but it does not. People often
make the error of thinking that things work when they don't and when the
so-called results are just coincidences. We just remember the time prayer seemed
to work. Atheists feel that life works for them but they see this as mere
coincidence. They are blessed without praying. If you are conscious of how life
can change for the better just like that you can live in hope and confidence.
Needing God to have that awareness is sad because there is no reason why you
cannot just have it God or not!
Prayer is a negative affirmation. Instead of admitting that you can make
yourself happy, prayer says you need God to do that for you. Instead of
commanding help to come now, prayer asks. This is saying you cannot take
supernatural control of your own life. Another problem with asking is that it is
requesting help that may never come because it is not God's will or help that
may not be given for another fifty years! Prayer undoes the work of affirmation.
Prayer is a bad affirmation.
Prayer shows what is going on in our hearts and we project our desires out to
God. It shows things about us. A truly good person might pray that all suffering
will end right now. A godly one will say that it is okay to ask for that as long
as you also ask God not to bother if it is not his will. To desire that evil
will happen if it is God's will is to become evil. It is too extreme considering
you cannot know there is a God but only believe or think there is one. Belief or
thinking does not justify you assenting to bad things happening.
It is thought that we will not pray unless we at least hope there is a loving
God. That is not true. As long as the person gets a response he does not care if
God is really loving or not. Acceptance of bad things happening is only right if
nothing can be done. It is not the same as giving up. If you leave all in God's
hands that is giving up! You should be saying, "Damn you, little Joey in the
hospital still has cancer! I asked you last week to help him!"
If as many suspect, most prayer (if not all) is instrumental and about getting
something from God be it virtue or a new car, then it is not about God but us
then it is clear why religion leads to so much hatred and evil and violence.
We are all so intimately connected that others praying for us harms us. Others
praying for us harms us. We pick up vibes from others. Their attitude towards us
has an effect.