DEPRESSION can be prolonged and even caused by God belief
Feeling sad or down is not the same as feeling depressed. Depression is the
experience of worthless existence. You feel you are worthless and your
relationships are worthless. For the Church to say this suffering should exist
or be allowed by God is a cruel disgrace. Nothing ever justifies leaving a
person experiencing their existence – the most important thing of all- as
worthless. If God would let a person suffer like that then God is evil and the
Church is evil for defending him. There can be no good if existence is worthless
or if a good God can let people suffer and feel as if their existence is
useless. It is not justified even for a second. Suffering should exist to make
us better people assuming it should exist at all. But depression does nobody any
good. To say that the depressed person causes good in the sense that he or she
has others who look after him is scandalous. A message like that will only make
the depression harder to cure. A person exists for their own sake not just so
that others can be good to her or him. If the depressed person gets better and
they help people better then to tell them that the depression was worth it is
totally evil. It is like feeling nothing when a parent dies on the grounds that
evil is worth it for God needs it for some brilliant purpose. Godism is for
psychopaths.
When you suffer from depression the Church coming along to tell you that God
loves you and that that should comfort you or help you at least a bit makes you
feel worse not better for depression cannot be helped that way. The depressed
person feels more worthless at the thought that even God’s love does nothing to
make her or him feel better and it should. It adds the burden of guilt. The
guilt is bad enough for a depressed person who is unable to feel loved by his or
her loved ones and unable to feel love for them in return. But it is worse if
the person believes that God is the best being and the most loving being in
existence. God is a dire belief.
God by definition is that which alone is needed. Religion says that relationships with others are about God meaning they are just the way God needs you to need him. The unavoidable danger with saying that people need God is that if they get depressed you will say they could be perceptive not depressed. You could say they have an appropriate response to a universe and life without any divine purpose, a life without God. A Christian who argues that God made us for himself would have to think that. The depressed person will be told that here is no point in hope if there is no God and if God is not believed in.