THE "ATTACHMENT IS HARMFUL" ARGUMENT FOR LOVING GOD ALONE
We need to avoid the love that is based on too much attachment to another person
or to a thing such as a job. You end up treating the person who you are too
attached to as a possession and will resort to violence if you think somebody is
taking her or him away from you. You will end up hating them when one day they
will criticise you or let you down. Attachment makes demands on yourself too
that can harm you. It can be very hurtful to be attached to the wrong thing.
St Augustine says love as in attachment is only okay if the object of your love
is God and only God. The reason is that God never lets you down and is worth
getting attached to and he cannot die. You do not love God in order to get
things from him or to feel good about yourself. That is just another way of
being attached to things. But notice how Augustine makes it about you! If God is
perfect good and creates us and even if his being all-powerful does not mean he
will necessarily save us from all evil for he only does what he can under the
circumstances surely it is still right to be attached to him for he is so good
even if his good cannot benefit us. Religion assumes God will overcome all evil
but that is not necessarily true if God and evil are compatible. It is really
that assumption they are about not God. Indeed if evil will never be overcome
that in fact gives you the best reason for battling it for you don't want it to
get stronger when it will always be here. Better to fight evil that will always
be there if the overall picture is that it will be 98% not 99%. Why? For it
takes more courage to battle evil for a small benefit than to battle it when you
think the benefit will be huge.
It is an end in itself to give God love and joy. It is about him not you. Nobody
cares that the love and joy you give God are not really given to him for he
already has them. It is not a very heartening enterprise. Christians in fact are
lying. They are masking attachment to things as attachment to God.
Christians say if you are not letting yourself be controlled by God then you are
letting yourself be controlled by something else. But is it really true that say
for example your love for your job controls you? Reality will always force
itself on you. You cannot get away from it. The same thing will happen in force
if you think or believe you are controlled by God or ruled by him and if you are
wrong.
Attachment to God only benefits (let us assume it does!) if it really is about
faith. But that will lead to an attachment to faith. Thus it ends up not
mattering if God will let you down or not for faith can and often will let you
down.
The attachment to God is recommended by Christians for bad reasons and harmful
reasons. They prove that they are not interested in being attached to God for
his own sake even if evil is something that will be as powerful forever. It is
about them more than they want you to think.