When your atheism becomes your faith
Belief
Beliefs are accepting something as likely to be true. To know
something is not to believe it. When you know something it is 100%
certain. It cannot be wrong. We use the word know a bit loosely.
When we believe something very strongly and find the evidence very
persuasive we tend to say we know it. An opinion is a weak form of
belief. When you accept an idea
You are not your beliefs/opinions. Your beliefs/opinions control how
you experience the world. Thus if you have not for example overcome
some big hurt in your life, you may fear people you think can hurt
you like that again. You need to know what you need and what you
want. More importantly you need to now why you want them. You don't
want to be a slave to your needs and wants. You want to be ruler of
your need and wants.
You need belief more than you do faith.
Faith – It’s Life in One Word
Faith should not be trusting in something without proper and without
sufficient evidence. It should be confidence based on evidence. If
you trust your wife now without evidence, your trust in her is based
on the fact that you don’t need evidence any more. You based your
faith in her on evidence up to a moment ago. Your faith is
provisional in the sense that you are open to it being shown to be
misplaced.
Faith is my power to believe what I have reason to think is true.
Faith is trust.
Faith is your life's blood
Life is impossible without Faith. Faith is a form of belief.
Do you need faith as I wishful thinking to make yourself feel
better? Perhaps you do but the occasions will be rare. Such faith
might help you but it does not follow that you should encourage it
in society or in others. If it is good for a person it is not
necessarily good for the community as a whole. There is a downside
to the comfort you get from wishful thinking. It can take away your
incentive to fix your problems. It can stop you seeing problems. For
example, if you are on your deathbed you may hope that with God’s
mercy that you will rise from it. That stops you feeling low but it
could lead to you refusing to make your will or reconcile with
estranged family members.
It is said that to believe in God or religion is to make an act of
faith. It is said that to decide there is no God is also an act of
faith. This is saying that both are presuppositions for belief.
Without faith in yourself you wouldn’t be alive and you wouldn’t be
able to be happy.
Many in the world try to live as far as they can by what reason
tells them. But faith in reason is really just faith in yourself.
The person with insanity cannot reason correctly. You have faith in
your intelligence and in your rationality and in your sanity.
Without faith in your emotions and instincts you wouldn’t be able to
love your friends and family and trust them.
Even those who claim to put all their faith in God are actually
putting faith in themselves more than in him. Faith in him is a
manifestation of their faith in themselves. No they have only faith
in themselves and are choosing indirect faith over direct faith.
What are they afraid of? How much better it is to have direct honest
faith in oneself. They trust themselves to know they should and can
trust God. If they didn’t have faith in themselves they would have
no faith in God. If they didn’t trust their thinking and their
feelings they wouldn’t be able to generate faith in God.
Faith is built in to us. We have faith, even the atheist, that if we
go on a bus trip we will come back alive. We have faith that
kindness is the best policy generally. There is no need for
religious people to try to condition children to have a specific
KIND of faith eg a Catholic or Muslim or whatever one. And the fact
remains that an atheist cannot encourage religious faith for
religious faith demands, in principle, that believers try to convert
her or him.
Without faith in yourself you cannot respect yourself properly. You
cannot respect others. Having faith in yourself to do the right
thing for you and those who lives you touch is the most important
gift of all.
The focus of mental health is to develop faith in yourself and
nothing else. You create your faith in the God you make your rock.
God, if he exists, doesn’t bless you. He gives you the power to
bless yourself. He wants you to be independent.
Self-confidence comes with trusting in yourself. True
self-confidence involves desiring only the things you can bring into
your life. When you manage that, you know you can work to get those
things. Instead of hoping these things will fall into your lap, you
simply go out and do something to make them happen. You do not ask a
God to help you. That is going back to hope and hope is unhealthy.
Faith/belief is very powerful. It colours how you see and perceive.
If you see people as shifty you will filter out the evidence against
this and remember the evidence for it. Thus you end up harming
yourself through your belief.
You need to avoid any form of faith that is not self-correcting. If
faith is good it does not follow that religious faith is good. Faith
can be a way of blinding yourself to the truth. It carries that
risk. Religious faith makes that risk too strong. It claims to be
about taking God’s word for it that such and such is true so it is
not self-correcting and cannot be. It involves putting the beliefs
beyond the reach of testing. Consider how when one gets what one
prays for it is considered evidence for the existence of God
answering prayer while
Belief is never a private matter in the sense our beliefs make us
the kind of persons and influences we are. Harmful beliefs are
harmful for us and therefore for those who come into contact with
us. They do this without any mysticism as well has being able to
harm people by putting harmful psychic energy into the world.
Faith is imperfect. It is not knowledge. The thought that it might
be misplaced is part of the package. You always have to hope that
what you believe in is true. Hope is imperfect too because you can't
have it without also having some fear. If you say you hope for
sunshine tomorrow, you will feel the fear that it may rain. You know
that it may rain instead. You need faith to be able to hope. The
less faith you have the greater the sense of hopelessness you will
experience.
People usually have faith in what they want to believe. But it is
possible to believe in reason because you want to be reasonable.
That is the only kind of faith that is acceptable. Anything else
doesn’t intend to be rational
All faith is ultimately faith in yourself that you are progressing
as a fulfilled person who can be of service to others. Be honest
about that and faith will work for you!
God and faith
God is that which alone matters and which is the all-good cause of
all other causes.
It could be that the cause should not be revered as God at all.
There is an idolatry risk - idolatry is the worship of a fictitious
God or the worship of something that is not worthy.
It could be dangerous to call on the cause for help for what if it
randomly does harm? If it does good all the time right now, that
could change in seconds.
Faith in God is really faith in man
To say men give you God’s message is to say that God trusted them to
give it. It is about trust in the men. It is also about God
trusting you for if he did not know that people like you would
respond he would just go and do something else like make quirky
universes just for jolly.
Hearing a voice does not mean it is God’s and only God can know if
he is really speaking. Even the person who hears cannot be sure but
can only guess. If anyone claims to be hearing the voice of God and
giving his message to others he is a liar. To think that you don’t
know where the voice comes from means it is not from you is
arrogant. It is, “I don’t know where this inspiration comes from so
it comes from God.” It makes no sense. By spreading your message you
inspire a worse arrogance in others. X has a voice in his heart or
head and doesn’t know where it comes from therefore it is from God.
The more your faith in a prophet is based on hearsay the worse the
problem gets.
No man has the right to start a religion and give it doctrine
because that is man knowingly or unknowingly fooling others and
having them look up to his word as if it were the word of a god. It
is man dictating to man what he must believe and that is demeaning.
Religious leaders can be corrupt. People say, “I follow this
religion because its from God - I don’t do it for those leaders.” In
actual fact if there is no God to follow they are still following
something so it must be the leaders.
Faith and feelings
Faith is an assurance that through your relationship to truth you
can be fine. Faith should be embracing the truth as your friend.
Faith should be a fluid process. Religion has people adopting faith
for they fear what it is like to think for yourself and feel alone.
If you adopt faith for that reason then your faith is not about
truth but about what suits you. It is not about truth but about
practicality. Faith that serves as a crutch or a shield to avoid
fear only leads to irrationality and self-deception and bigotry.
If you have faith for the alternative is worse then that is an
admission that it is not about truth about practicality.
The only problem in life is our feelings. Our feelings alone can
damage and hurt us and we fear them. They do not always follow the
head. They sometimes respond to good sense and often they do not.
Worship them. Talk to them. They will become more co-operative.
The person who admires the billionaire who seems to have an exciting
business life forgets that one can small running a tiny business
just as much. It’s not what you do that matters but how you feel
about it.
Faith is belief when it is accompanied by action. The action flows
from it. Faith without good works is no good and is not real faith.
Faith helps me the more I put it into practice. I test and exercise
my faith by performing good works and this helps me prove to myself
that my faith is true and is justified.
Faith must promote what is best for people on the human level. Keep
all religious and spiritual assumptions and prejudices out of it.
That way even if the faith is wrong, there is no harm done. Faith
must not make anything worse if it cannot make anything any better.
Keep faith human. Once you start telling people to take supernatural
assumptions seriously you don’t know where it will lead.
The only faith you need is the faith in yourself to manage
acceptance of one fact. The fact is that you can handle all the
difficulties of life. You do this by doing things despite the fear
you feel and by taking all the credit for your courage.
You cannot develop a faith unless you start with faith in yourself.
After all, there is no faith unless you create it and you need
self-belief to do that.
Everybody has faith in themselves even if it is very small. There is
hope for all.
You live out your faith as if the only thing that mattered was
people first and then the higher animals.
I will nurture my faith and then try to feel that it is true.
Feelings need not stop me being rational. Seek the truth with
fervour.
Faith is confidence in ourselves that we will never worsen any pain
and suffering that come to us. It gives us at least some strength to
face the future. Healthy faith does not necessarily take away your
problems but it does not worsen them.
Religious people turn faith into a religious matter but it does not
need to be. It is not intrinsically religious. In fact it is
natural. Our minds are programmed to make most of us see life as
better and less threatening than we might see it. Nature has given
us the faculties which protect us from overwhelming and crippling
fear.
If you need medication to correct some kind of imbalance then take
it. There is something the matter that needs medicine to help. But
usually all we need to do is to avoid anything that gets in the way
of our faith or that weakens it. Faith will happen unless obstacles
are put in its way.
Faith happens easily if you simply recognise that failure does not
exist. When you lose something you get an opportunity to find
something else. Put this into daily practice and you will soon feel
that life works miracles for you. You alone can and will do this and
you alone can and will take the credit for it. Thus your faith is
atheist.
Many of us need to leave dubious faith or unhealthy faith behind in
order to find real faith. Do not be afraid of helping a person lose
their faith for they will find another. And hopefully it will be
self-faith. You can destroy a faith but not faith. Faith abhors a
vacuum.
It is feared that faith gives us comfort when things go wrong but
makes us less willing to fix those things. This only happens when
faith becomes a refusal to consider changing one’s mind even when
the evidence says you should. Real faith never fears the truth.
Faith/belief is very powerful. It colours how you see and perceive.
If you see people as shifty you will filter out the evidence against
this and remember the evidence for it. Thus you end up harming
yourself through your belief. Is it not better to see them as
yourself in other bodies and as deities in their own right? Belief
is you being God. When you worship God, it is really the beliefs
that you have constructed that you worship. This is idolatry and
shows that it would be wiser to adore yourself and others in the
first place!
Belief is never a private matter in the sense our beliefs make us
the kind of persons and influences we are. Harmful beliefs are
harmful for us and therefore for those who come into contact with
us. We need to listen to people and welcome challenges to our
beliefs and our faith and our religion.
I celebrate my rationality and come to correct conclusions about the important
truths. Then I feel that they are true and enjoy the feeling as best I can. When
I do that they will influence my life better and I will remember them better.
Your horrid feelings are not your fault in themselves. What you have to do is to
take steps to help them to disappear. It is not you that makes yourself feel
angry or depressed or sad or bad. Even if you choose to watch a weepie movie and
you cry you have not made yourself cry. It is your psychological make-up that
causes all the adverse emotional reactions. You have to find the triggers or
buttons that will change the feelings to something better and something more
positive and healthy.
We often sow what we reap in relation to our thoughts. If we think nice thoughts
we attract nice things into our lives.
To help yourself keep feeling it you must believe it.
Self-deception is harmful
It is easy to assume something and think that means you believe in it. The test
is in the evidence you have for it.
Self-deception often masquerades as faith. Emotion often does as well. Emotion
can only do that when feeling that something is true is mistaken for believing
that it is true. The self-deceiver is the worst liar of all. Self-deception
always leads to people hating to some degree anybody or anything who may expose
that deception.
If you lie to yourself, it is so that you can be believable to others. It
ultimately about fooling others. The more plausibility and respect you are
awarded by others the more you tend to almost believe your own lies.