THE CASE AGAINST ALTRUISM
What is altruism?
Serving others without seeking anything in it for yourself including good
feelings. Without seeking means you are open to getting something so real
altruism implies that you refuse anything back. An altruism that declares that
it is good to work only for the other person (meaning anything else is bad) and
leave yourself out of it demands that you consciously leave yourself out.
What is egoism?
The only alternative to altruism. It is helping others so that you will at least
feel good and fulfilled. Egotism is hurting others in the name of self.
What about belief that altruism is good and anything else is evil?
The view defines good as giving up what you want and even your very self for
another or others. Evil demands the sacrifice of others for you. Altruism
demands it of yourself.
Is it saying that being hurt and degraded is fine as long as it is chosen?
Yes. This amounts to an absurdity. It is saying harm is not bad or evil but only
doing what you don't choose to do is evil. Altruism like all forms of evil is
internally incoherent.
What fear has altruism of non-altruism which it says is evil?
The fear is that as evil is easy it will soon get very powerful and even conceal
itself as good.
Does altruism ultimately care about making people happy or happier?
Not necessarily. It says though all are worthy of happiness. Being worthy of
happiness does not mean I should receive it or will receive it. There might be a
reason why I shouldn’t receive it.
Can the wish for happiness prevent me being altruistic?
Altruism says yes. Anybody who does good when they are happy finds it easiest.
They do good less because it is good but more because they feel like doing it.
Altruism says you are more genuine and value good more if you renounce happiness
for the good of others.
Does altruism admit that happiness comes not when you aim for it but when you do
good it comes by itself?
Yes. It warns that we must not use this fact as a roundabout way of getting
happiness. Egoism says we should.
What altruism imply then about the side effect of happiness?
That it is an evil and should not be wanted or chosen. It would be a sin to let
happiness manifest in your heart when you take it from others or try to. That
would hardly be selflessness.
What if I cannot avoid at times having to be happy in order to serve others?
When I can’t suffer in serving others and serve them I should wish I could.
Altruism is about motives so altruism requires that you have the habit of
altruism.
Does altruism tell me my happiness does not matter?
It does for it tells me not to think of it or work for it. It is wrong to deeply
care about what does not matter. If my happiness does not matter then I do not
matter and if I do not matter then others do not matter and only practicing the
principle of altruism matters. If I am to believe that I do not matter but other
people do matter then this is ridiculous and is masochistic and I would have
other people believing the same thing about themselves while I say they matter!
Why is altruism so popular?
The only reason altruism is popular and looks good is because it is not
practiced properly. Its misuse is what so frequently makes it look good enough
to gain social acceptance. People pretend to be altruistic to get praise for
being loving and compassionate to others.
Is it as good as it looks?
I am sure I exist. I by default am less certain that others do or have feelings
and needs the way I do or as much as me. To be an altruist is to pretend
otherwise and lie to myself. The answer is no.
If my altruism is based on disrespect or hate for myself what then?
I cannot I love others when I give them myself as helper when I think I am
hateful or shouldn’t be respected. It would not be love to spread altruism by
teaching or example if it demands that or usually leads to that.
Can one say that violating yourself is good and it is loving yourself to do that
yourself for it means you can be for others not you?
The altruists self-renunciation is good because it is good which isn’t obvious
and is the very thing that needs to be proven. It's using an assumption as a
weapon to get people to devalue and hurt themselves.
So there is no evidence for the validity of altruism?
Most who espouse altruism admit that there is no evidence for its validity (page
58, Runaway World). It rests entirely on prejudice or religious authority so it
is basically people patronising others. It is not so altruistic after all when
it is like that for there is nothing praiseworthy in what is not justified. They
are asking for trouble.
Does it make sense to say, "If I can be altruistic instead of egoistic and its
just a matter of changing my intention then if I am as good being one or the
other then I should be altruistic"?
This turns altruism into a lifestyle not a morality. It contradicts how altruism
says non-altruism is unjustifiably dangerous. When the good can be had without
altruism, altruism is no use.
Any other objections?
You can be good and still be totally selfish and be better than any altruist. It
is like saying that instead of milk it is more rational and justifiable to use
artificial milk. It cannot be good to do good and make it less good by denying
yourself for the sake of denying yourself.
Don’t you have to be an altruist to deserve to be called caring?
We mean that a person likes helping when we call them caring. Altruism is not
caring. And even if it were, we would not be evil for rejecting it for there is
nothing else we can do about it. It is a bad philosophy devoid of credibility.
Is it not correct that if you have nobody to be altruistic towards, you can
indulge yourself in any enjoyment you wish?
Happiness when it is caused by your being self-indulgent makes you reluctant to
hurt yourself for others so it is a sin or wrong - if altruism is correct. You
are harbouring a bad attitude. It would be like hating a person which is not
justified even when it cannot do any harm. To indulge yourself would be to
refuse to love. You would have to do penance instead or practice training
yourself for greater altruistic heroism if the chance to be altruistic will come
again.
What if I do a good act to gain enjoyment from performing it and think I have
plenty of time in the future to be altruistic?
Then altruism condemns me. It says it was not a loving act and therefore wrong
so when happiness is forbidden then it is always forbidden.
If altruism is the true philosophy, should I do what somebody who wants me to
carry him for miles for a loaf asks?
As long as he does it to discipline me and make me altruistically love for I
can’t encourage him to be lazy. Nobody can say that I should refrain from doing
this if my suffering will not be worth the result for it is worth the result to
be trained to make such a great sacrifice. Equally difficult sacrifices are
allowed for stamina in sports. It is worth the result morally but not worth the
result regarding pleasure and pleasure is a sin.
What do you think of the idea that altruism requires us to suffer to a certain
extent and not too much?
Not much. Altruists claim that altruism is love. The idea is arguing that we
need love but not too much of it for it would not be love to cause too much
suffering. If love is treating a person correctly and honouring them there can't
be too much of it. Altruism logically puts a stigma on happiness and says it is
love to urge people to suffer for others without doing anything for themselves.
Clearly then the more suffering the better in this view.
If altruism is right then is self-esteem allowed?
Self-esteem is enjoying the fact that you are good or liking yourself. Altruism
has to forbid it. You have to look after yourself for the sake of helping others
but you are not to enjoy this care for it is a necessary evil. It is rewarding
yourself.
Can you show how altruism is love of rules such as love and compassion not
people?
The altruist should step over the dying body in the street for a greater good –
the offering of others the opportunity to practice agonising love but only if it
will mean that two or more will have to help instead of him for the more
altruists the better.
Does altruistic love really satisfy other people?
It is cold or not motivated by warm feeling. The feeling might be there but it
is not the reason for the "love". This is clinical and unsatisfactory and will
result in us becoming and making other people dysfunctional. And when altruism
requires that we help others to make them altruistic and does not care for their
happiness which is only served as a means to the end of making them altruistic
what joy can it bring? None.
Is it a mistake to surmise that altruists should not be turned to our way of
thinking for they won’t drift into the full-blown depravity of their doctrine?
But they are depraved as it is when they advocate their philosophy and hurt
people who despise it.
Why can’t we believe that altruism is okay as long as the altruist values
himself and his needs too?
A man taking the risk of reprisal to report a crime is praised by altruists. An
altruistic woman is commended for refusing to have sex with a man whose
happiness would be increased considerably for a long time if she did have sex.
How inconsistent. The doctrine of altruism, with typical inconsistency, argues
that there are certain actions that degrade the person and are wrong. It is
mistaken to say that it is dignified to report the crime and not dignified to
have the sex if it is safe and harmless. All altruistic actions degrade. This
modified brand of altruism is degrading for it is illogical and inconsistent. It
still says the woman’s happiness is not important if she wants to have the
illicit sex. You have to be either a full altruist or not an altruist at all.
What about how everybody hates somebody for what they have done?
It makes us feel we have to hate somebody. Inwardly we hold that the feelings of
revulsion are not our fault. Altruism cares about intentions and not results. So
this would suggest the more you hate somebody the better for at least you can be
altruistic and sacrificial towards them. Original sin implies that revulsion is
going to be always with us so we should avail of it to make ourselves more
altruistic.
What does egoism say?
The hate is against the peace of mind that an egoist aims for.
Does self-love stop you loving another and distract you from it?
No. It means you think of yourself as a gift you give to others to further their
happiness. When one does not think and is not taught the principles of true
healthy rational egoism the feelings that result in warped egoism that harms
others are not our fault.
What is so great about egoism?
Doing your best would have to be egoism or helping others to help and please
yourself. This egoism is the best for you can prove it as we have seen and it
does not condemn happiness but sanctions it.
What if neither altruism or egoism really advocate proper love for others?
It is claimed that if altruism is not love and helping others out of
self-interest is not love then there is no love. Love demands doing the best you
can even if it cannot be perfect. Egoism is the best you can do so to do your
best for others is love.You could wish you could love and do what is nearest to
it and that would be love for it is doing your best that counts. Altruism is
anti-love.
CONCLUSION
Altruism does not exist but is a delusion at best and a pretence at worst. It's
not harmless.
Egoism is everything we ever wanted in a philosophy for life. Altruism wants to
turn goodness into a chore. How much better it is to love yourself and
appreciate yourself and see yourself and your deeds as a gift you give to others
instead of neurotically looking for ways to deny yourself happiness in helping
others.